How to manifest more money in your business
If you are a female business owner, read “the secret” or my book “Universe & You: 11 Steps To Co-Create The Life You Desire” or other books on the law attraction, you certainly wondered about how to manifest more money in your business.
So let’s dive into the fascinating topic of the power of your mind.
A successful female entrepreneur has an abundance of confidence in herself and has worked on her fears and limiting beliefs, because, well – they have been limiting her, and preventing her from creating the life she craves to live.
Having limiting beliefs about ourselves, our business, the people around us, or the world as a whole, will reduce our abundance levels, because instead of focusing our energy on the things we CAN change for the better, we keep focusing on all the things we believe we can’t.
Living a life filled with fears and anxiety and too many limiting beliefs will make us play small, stay small, and at some point, we might feel bitter, as we didn’t get to experience life the way we had dreamed about. The longer we keep our fears and beliefs, the more we will sabotage ourselves in all areas of life.
The effects of limiting beliefs on your physical and mental health
According to the University of Minnesota:
“To someone in chronic fear, the world looks scary and their memories confirm that. Moreover, fear can interrupt processes in our brains that allow us to regulate emotions, read non-verbal cues and other information presented to us, reflect before acting, and act ethically. This impacts our thinking and decision-making in negative ways, leaving us susceptible to intense emotions and impulsive reactions.”
Not only can fear interfere with our memory and our perception of reality, but it will have a major effect on our body, too. Fear can even damage the hippocampus and long-term memories, as well as increase our overall anxiety, fatigue, and even chronic depression. On top, it accelerates our aging process.
Most likely you are hyper-aware of your conscious limiting beliefs
When practicing the law of attraction it’s imperative you focus on the positive outcomes you wish to create.
I’m sure you wanted to manifest more money in your business by being positive. Maybe you practiced positive affirmations and changed all your passwords to remind you of your goal as suggested by Denise Duffield-Thomas in her book “Get rich, lucky bitch”
Maybe there were vision boards and abundance activations.
You know, by now, that if you constantly think and believe that you are not good enough, you will attract situations and people who will mirror this back to you.
You also know that if you subscribe to the belief that “there is not enough time” you will never launch that beta program, write that book, start that podcast, or start that life-changing course.
If you believe that you are a bad decision taker, you know you’ll keep postponing important decisions.
So far so good.
Yet, how come that so many women I work with are still sabotaging themselves? Even though they have done extensive mindset work?
How your subconscious mind doesn’t allow you to manifest more money in your business
“We learn our belief systems as very little children, and then we move through life creating experiences to match our beliefs. Look back in your own life and notice how often you have gone through the same experience.”Louise L. Hay
Here is the thing. We can consciously be aware of all these limiting beliefs and yet not manifest anything because our subconscious mind is sabotaging us.
I work with women at a subconscious mind level. That’s around 80-90% of your mind. It’s safe to say we don’t know what kind of internalised subconscious beliefs we have stored in there.
We generally are great at agreeing to our collective limiting beliefs, such as:
– One needs to work hard to make money
– Time is money
– Dreams are not practical
– You can’t make any money being a creative
You might not be thinking consciously about these limiting beliefs, but the energy of it might be stored in your subconscious mind. That’s because you might have been exposed to it too many times as a child and have internalised certain things you have long forgotten now.
How the subconscious limiting belief “I’m scared of my own success” doesn’t let you manifest more money in your business
When I work with female entrepreneurs, we always find layer upon layer of limiting beliefs. One of the most frequent ones I find is “I’m scared of my own success” (believe it or not).
Think about that for a minute. You dream about being successful. Of making enough money and attracting high-end clients or raving customers.
But, deep down, on a subconscious level, many female business owners are terrified of what happens once they get highly visible in their business. Some of them feel they now have to “deliver”. That they will be watched and judged more. They are scared of so many things when it comes to their success.
- Will I be able to keep a work-life balance?
- Will my family or friends judge me once I’m successful?
- What if I’m more successful than them, will they resent me?
And so many more questions and fears arise, layer after layer.
Limiting beliefs around money itself
If you want to manifest more money in your business, yet you have all these weird subconscious beliefs around it, there is no wonder it won’t show up.
This has been my story as well since I started my business. One of my underlying limiting beliefs was:
“Money doesn’t make you happy”
Because growing up in a rich family with a father who had his own company, I soon realised that all the money he was making didn’t make him happy. He suffered from depression and was an alcoholic.
Needless to say, not a cool limiting belief to adopt when you want to build your own business. I had to work on all my money stories and limiting beliefs that popped up one after the other.
Taking on other people’s limiting beliefs around money
I also found out that we can take on other people’s limiting beliefs. One of the girls in one of my manifesting courses found out she had “financial fears” in her energetic system, and fears of paying credit card bills.
She told me she didn’t have any financial worries. By digging into her subconscious mind, we found out she was taking on her family’s worries around everything money-related. Because her parents talked about it with her so frequently, the fear and negative energy around money was present in her own system and was interfering with her ability to create the life she wanted for herself.
Sabotaging your income based on what your parents were earning
You can’t manifest more money in your business when you subconsciously sabotage your income levels, based on what your parents were earning. I worked with women who (subconsciously) didn’t want to earn more than their fathers did. Perhaps they grew up in a family where it was frowned upon to be rich.
Or it was a very “traditional” family where the father was the one who earned all money, or certainly the most. One of these women told me, that it came as an absolute shock to unravel this limiting belief, yet when she thought more about it she confessed that she felt she would “emasculate” her father by earning much more than him.
The same thing holds true in a romantic relationship that the one identifying as the woman doesn’t want to “upset” the significant other one.
“Money is the root of all evil”
Some families hold a belief that “money is the root of all evil” or “you have to work really hard to earn money”, which is all nonsense of course. Money is just an energy and it’s up to us how we use it and how we feel about it. It’s essential that when we have high self-worth we are paid adequately. It’s essential that when we have a business, we allow ourselves to earn more than enough to be abundant.
Other families value security above all else, so when someone decides to start their own business or deviate from the “secure path”, they might find themselves without much support, or worse, with active discouragement.
One of my clients grew up in a household where everything creativity related was suppressed, or when exercised, then only coupled with lots of alcohol. She, therefore, ended up repressing her creativity, subconsciously fearing that it would result in addiction if she followed that path.
However, she wanted nothing more than to be a writer and suffered from tremendous writer’s block. Once we removed that childhood blockage she went on to write without any problems.
The effects of your limiting beliefs on your kids
Children especially are very susceptible to their parent’s mental state of mind. If they have a parent who is very anxious they will feel it too, even though they have no understanding of what’s going on.
I worked with a 2-year-old girl once who had severe night tremors. She would wake up crying and in panic many nights in a row. When I connected to the girl’s energy, I found the fear “I don’t know the next steps” in her energetic system, but I also knew it wasn’t hers.
So I removed it and sent some healing her way. When I spoke to the mother on the phone she confirmed that the fear of “not knowing the next steps” had been very present lately for her husband in his career. After I did the healing the daughter slept very well again.
Fear of the future
I work with so many women who fear what’s to come. Or rather, the not knowing of what’s coming their way. Of course, we all would love to get a book outlining our next steps. We all wished we could walk confidently in the right direction. But that’s not how life works. We need to live with all the uncertainties life throws at us. Especially when we have very sensitive children at home who feel all energetic charges in the room.
Therefore, it’s essential for everyone’s health to keep a positive mindset and to practice keeping it even when life seems tough or unstable. It’s important to focus on the brain and how the brain works. When someone is overly fearful they create neuronal pathways, training their minds to have these fear-based thoughts. And the more they keep doing it, the more they can reinforce these neuronal pathways.
6 weeks “Diagnose & Heal Your Business” Program
I teach my clients how to identify the exact limiting beliefs they currently have at a subconscious mind level, at what ages they appeared, and whether they are theirs, someone else’s, or maybe even a collective limiting belief they were born into.
I teach how to release these and reprogram my clients’ brains with positive and uplifting beliefs so they can better access their zone of genius, and work on creating the life they desire without being sabotaged by limiting beliefs and fears.
In my 6-week program limiting beliefs is just one of many other themes we look into, such as:
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