Why we shouldn’t ever judge another soul

May 4, 2018

Since I was 18 years old I have been FASCINATED by the theory of reincarnation, past lives and karma. I started reading books back then, and just couldn’t get enough.


It wasn’t until my end twenties that I started having past life visions and suddenly started understanding all of my very difficult relationships.


Some of these relationships I could heal, and turn them around.


Others, I decided to let go of as I understood the lessons behind us meeting again, and I could let go with love and forgiveness. That included a man I thought I would marry.

Since then I came a long way. I had hundreds and hundreds of visions by now. For myself, and even more so for my clients.

And so here are some of my deep felt truths I would like to share today:

Let’s never judge “promiscuous women”, or women who enjoy their sexuality, changing their partners, living in polyamorous relationships, for they might have had lifetimes of repressing their sexuality. They might have lived as nuns, made vows of chastity and never got to feel sexually free.

On the contrary, don’t judge a woman who is the opposite and for whom sexuality is everything but exciting, for she might have had lifetimes of physical and sexual abuse, and her soul still remembers that on a subconscious level.

Let’s not judge women who break out of their marriages, it might be the very first life they dare to empower themselves and to break free from something that wasn’t good for them any longer.

Let’s not judge the women who consciously decided not to have kids, as these women might have had numerous lives where they already excelled as mothers and caregivers and they finally want to experience life differently.

Let’s not judge women who are selfish in this life, for these women might have had tons of past lives where they were selfless, to the point where their lesson now is to bring their focus back to themselves, and to learn about their own needs and desires.

Let’s not judge women who decided to be mums and wives, and who gave up their career, or never had one to begin with. These women might have had many traumatic lives without being part of a family, or having a nurturing home. Their mission now is to just feel “safe”, loved and in harmony.

There is so much more I could write here…

The point is: we can NEVER judge a soul. You simply don’t know what lessons this soul is here to learn this time around. Only the soul itself knows.

Want to learn more about your own past lives? Your own karmic relationships? About where your fears or phobias might come from? What your past life talents and gifts were, and bring them back into this life?

I have an AMAZING online program I created: 4 weeks long, every week we tackle one of these topics. You will get information on a number of past lives, will receive clarity, healing and will be inside of a group that will hold space for you.

“The course was insightful and fascinating. It opened up a new perspective on my current anxiety, worries and energetic problems, and helped me to make sense of them. A lot of questions were answered and new ones came up, which Lais was great at answering. Her support throughout the course was timely, suggestions were thorough and tailored to each individual. I would definitely recommend the course to anyone interested in a different and more profound level of introspection.” Ronalee, Brazil 2017

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Written by Lais Stephan

Lais is a healer, channeler & Space Clearing Expert together with her mum Heloisa.

She is the Author of “Universe & You: 11 Steps To Co-Create The Life You Desire” and a poetry collection “Wild Women Rising”.

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